PR #1098 added the CMSG_DATA(3) family of functions into libc.  Because
they're defined as macros in C, they had to be rewritten as Rust
functions for libc.  Also, they can't be tested in CI for the same
reason.  But that PR erroneously used the same definitions in BSD as in
Linux.

This commit corrects the definitions for OSX, FreeBSD, DragonflyBSD,
OpenBSD, and NetBSD.  I renamed a few variables and collapsed a few
macros in order to combine the definitions where possible.

Fixes #1210